My friend talked about the pressure that she recently gave to her BF. She told me that she is surprised that she did that. It is a long distance relationship. She told him that next year she would not travel as much as this year, because she wants to save to buy a condo...So either move here or...Amazingly he got the very first job interview after that. Before he made 50% effort, now 90%:)
Does long distance relationship work? It works if you have good faith in each other and for a period of time, I think.
Did I give any pressure to anybody? So far only once, if it is. I think a little pressure is good for both, if I do not really care or do not grow up yet, I won't. Only if I really want and am serious about something, I will do it. Not much, a bit is enough. If people care, they will know what to do. Of course, good communication plays a key role here!
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I've been in a distance relashionship once. It didn't worked well.. because I wasen't down for it I think. I was suspicious and I was experiencing many things so it was all just messed up. But I think that if you really one something to work and to keep on goin' it will, it just takes a lot of efforts =)...
By the way.. I really like the blog, all thoses questions about life, kinda cool
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